O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.
(Q.S.Al-Hujuraat (49): 12)
Before I start spilling out what's on
my mind, I just want to say... it's good to be home. Alhamdulillah.
If traveling means appreciating what
you have back in your hometown, I would LOVE to do it more often.
Yeah, you wish. Hahaha.
Something has disturbing my mind since
like forever. Here, in theprimadita, I am trying to show the world
that we, women, can inspire and encourage each other – while you
might realize something big and disgusting is happening out there.
More and more women are judging each
other nowadays.
Working mother vs Stay-at-home mother
Breastfeeding mother vs
Non-breastfeeding mother
Married women vs Single women
Syar'i hijabers vs Non-syar'i hijabers
...and the list goes on..
Women, what's wrong with us???
Me myself, also often do it.
While I also understand that there is
no ideal situation for each and every single of us.
If it's good for you, congratulation.
If it isn't good for others, you don't have a right to criticize it.
What? You said it's because you care?
If you care, you better keep silent and
pray for your sisters.
For Allah gives His bless to them.
For Allah – not you – knows better
what's best for them.
For Allah will always show His careness
with many forms that you might not imagine.
He loves your sisters for whatever
reasons, why don't you?
Lots of love,
Prima
